It's crazy - If you try to support the leadership, you're being cliquey and exclusive. If you try to support the member, you're a weak leader who can't follow bylaws and structure. If you try to address the issues and ignore the emotions, you're insensitive. If you address the emotions then you're just being a girl - and Lord knows how
girls can be.
Whatever. I've found that the majority of folks who post here have a genuine interest in helping and learning. Their input comes from their experiences and perspective. If I'm helpful to someone, great. If I learn something new, terrific. If I offend someone, it's probably an accident. If I'm just being a girl, that's ok. I am a girl.
Hubby's getting back on track. He went pretty quickly from wishing he was dead to pissed off that he isn't instantly and miraculously fine. The recovery process isn't something he does with grace and elegance! Luckily, he's only had a few major illnesses or traumas so he doesn't have to go through it very often. Unlike when he was a kid and St. Mary's hospital had a whole wing and a dedicated staff for his Evel Kneivel type injuries! One thing he's learning is empathy for folks (present company included) who do have to go through things like this more often!!!
I hope all of you and yours are on the mend and will get through flu season soon.
18 shopping days to Christmas! Or 14 for those of us leaving for vacation on the 21st..... Yikes, I'd better get busy.
[ 12-07-2006, 07:52 AM: Message edited by: CrewChief ]