To be honest when we wrote our bylaws this is something we never even considered! We were so inexperienced, and never realized that any of our fundraisers would require contracts! We never
officially gave her permission to do anything other than coordinate the various chairs and fundraising events. We also never wrote anything specific in our bylaws about people voting on the fundraisers we do. We left it rather general and said that the executive board's duties were to "conduct business" involving the group and to approve vendors. While we want people to have input, we didn't want to make every decision available to everyone--before you know it you're in the voting pit never to resurface! We figured people could approach us with ideas, we'd decide which ones worked, and then put those to everyone to vote on.
I really hate to pull rank, not only because I don't want to be mean, but also because while this woman is for the most part very nice and helpful, she's also a bad-mouther. In this rather passive-aggressive way, and she does it all over town. I'm just starting to panic because we're supposed to have a meeting with my "lovely" principal in about 10 days to meet with the vendor etcetera--and I want to have all my ducks in a row before I call the principal to let her know we're not using the vendor (and we're all afraid that since we've never done a fundraiser during school hours before she'll make us call it off if we seem the least bit unprepared).
What especially galls me is that after the last fundraiser the fundraising chair made a big, diva production out of say, "I quit! No one listens to me, you change all my decisions (not true!), yadda yadda yadda." (Quite honestly we were all relieved). A few days later when we were getting to call a meeting with her to put it to rest--a close family member of hers died, so we just...sorta of let it go for a while. It also p!sses me off that I called her Sunday to see what the deal was, and asked her for the contract and phone number then and she was all, "No problem." I don't see or hear from her Monday so I call that evening and leave a message. Now it's Saturday and STILL nothing. I did call the actual chair for the fundraiser that's in question, whom we'd heard nothing from at all (which I was annoyed by) because it suddenly dawned on me that perhaps we were being played against each other. She seemed open to the idea of not using the vendor, but as she's socially involved with the fundraising chair she refused to be nailed to giving any real opinion.
I'm sure this got back to the fundraising chair as well, and now she's imagning all sorts of Machiavellan plots on my part.
So--I called a meeting with the executive board for tomorrow afternoon. I'm still waiting to hear who can make it, but if everyone can get together we're going to let the chair have her say, write the pros and cons down, then put it to vote. Which she'll lose, then of course I'll be the evil queen who pitted everyone against her
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