Back in the 60’s doctor Spock said, time outs work, don’t spank it harms a child’s psyche. 5 or 6 years ago, he recanted stating: (this is a paraphrasing of his words)
40-45% of kids time outs work
35-40% of kids need harsher discipline (not beatings) other than time outs
The rest, not much can be done with them.
This was his proof based on 30+ years of watching the social interactions of kids, meanwhile, parents raising children, have gotten their “rights†taken away from them to discipline children appropriately other than what is mandated by the “stateâ€. Eg no spanking of children.
I feel that if parents at a young age, enforce discipline, as long as it isn’t physically harmful (ie bruises etc). Are taught, that words like “thank you†and “your welcome†with either Sir or Ma’am addressed, coupled with, strong role models in their lives, limited tv, music, and play station, these kids might actually amount to something.
I am not saying every parent is wrong, or even a majority, but there are many out there that know who they are, they come home, ignore their kids, offer no positive influences, and bash others for trying to get ahead, or “have it made†because they pursued better jobs, education etc . Where were they in the scheme of things while growing up…. I have insights into this Ie they didn’t try, didn’t have someone who cared, or didn’t care themselves.. maybe the knuckleheads beating kids instead of spanking need some insight and guidlines