Thanks for all the feedback.
This is some of my perspective about corporal punishment:
Here in Union County, North Carolina, our district has failed to provide parents and students with a list of misconducts that can lead to the use of corporal punishment. I have no clue what my four children could do to tick off a teacher and lead to abusive hitting. We know too, that if a teacher paddles and bruises a child, there is no wrong doing perceived. How many parents would hire a babysitter who brought a wooden board with holed drilled in it and told you that she would maintain order while you were gone? How many of you as parents hit your children with wooden boards with holes drilled in them? My county sees itself as above the law, yet has hit children for being tardy to class. Children are suspended for untucked shirts, even if it comes out during recess. Yet the adults do not follow state law. That is my beef, plus I don't want my children hit.
Lest you think that these horridly behaved children are in need of a good smack, 76 children in our county were hit for being tardy to class, 85 disabled children were hit for minor issues. Our county leads the states of North Carolina and South Carolina in the number of disabled children paddled, according to the Office of Civil Rights data.
Corporal punishment at school is not the answer, in my humble opinion. That opinion is also shared by over 107 major organizations in the medical, social, educational, and psychiatric fields, and these groups have formal written position statements supporting a ban of corporal punishment in schools. I agree that there are many parents who are in need of support and parenting skills. One in ten adults are mentally unstable, including teachers. I maintain that educated people should be modeling non violence in all aspects of life, to include discipline.
For those who wish to hit your children, that is your choice. I should have the choice to not have my children beat with wooden planks at school, for reasons unknown to me, and without my knowledge and my consent. My district required two signatures for my then 5th grade daughter to receive a stick of Secret and a mini pad sample, and a book on hygiene. One signature was for her to get the product, the other was to show that I had instructed her to keep the products in the box on the bus on the way home. Surely a district that requires that attention to detail should be able to follow state law.
I realize that not every county is as bad as ours, but we live in an area that fragments the parent body, and relishes the idea of catching children doing anything wrong. It is a negative, punitive culture, not just the corporal punishment. The mindset is backwards in so many ways, and I have seen that once the educated sector models this type of behavior, all sorts of misconducts on the parts of the adults are suddenly acceptable.
At the very least, it is great to know that there is a heightened awareness that corporal punishment is still going on in some schools. Many people think it has been outlawed for a long time.
Have a good Sunday all!