Well, my first thought is that I completely agree with you on the fact that just paying dues does not make a person an active, viable member of a PTO. It has always bothered me when I see groups claiming that they are 400 members strong, but their basis for this is that a parent paid $5 dues.
To me a parent group, by whatever name, is all about making the aducational experience better for the children. That is a pretty broad and general statement. The way I look at it is that school budgets only go so far. Many, many things that we may have had as children are not allowed and financially possible for our children. At the same time, with the changes and advancements in technology, etc., there are many things available to our children that were not available to us. It is my belief that a parent group, such as a PTO, should try to work with the school and town administration to provide more opportunities for our children. Now that doesn;t mean that we become the cash cow. In fact it is for this reason that I am so adamant about beling incorporated, maintaining financial controls, etc.
Some general topics for discussion where parent groups can support are:
- Enrichment, both in the school and away from school (field trips)
- Learning, such as reading programs, after school or before school programs, etc.
- Fun/Spirit, such as, dare I say it, parties.
- Supportive, such as parents assisting teachers, volunteering within the class, etc.
- Technology, such as computers, lab equipment, classroom resources, etc.
- Athletic, such as recess equipment, playgrounds, field and track inprovements, etc.
So as you can see, IMO, there are just so many areas that a PTO can make a valid, direct and positive impact.
But here's a very big point, based on your thread. To affect much of the areas that I listed, you obviously need money. That doesn't mean to say that there are things that you can't do without money. For example, we have a couple of parties (we have to call them socials) each year and they are break even events. We charge a very minimal fee at the door (we're talking $3 to $5 per family) in order to cover the DJ fee, prizes, etc. Another one is that a member started an after school book club for a select number of students, and this could have been done with no cost whatsoever (but in actuality we provided some funds because one of the books was about reptiles, so we're having the local reptile mobile come in for the kids).
But the majority of the areas that I listed requires funds in order to make a positive impact. School needs new recess equipment, it's going to cost. Being able to bring Benjamin Franklin in to the school to perform an assembly, it's going to cost. A new school sign, it's going to cost. Offsetting the cost of school field trips so that the parents only pay $10 instead of $20, it's going to cost.
So the question is, could you do away with fundraisers and still make a positive impact?... sure you could, but it comes down to just how much you want your group to be able to do.
My best recommendation would be to not do away with the fundraisers, but at the same time stay away from dues. Look more at increasing communication with the parents and making your group something that the parents think about, in a positive way. Have a kicking back to school event promoting involvement. Have a kicking fall event so that parents will start thinking about getting involved. Create a colorful, useful newsletter each month informing the parents about all of the things that you are doing and how your group is not a clique and how everyone's opinion and suggestions are valuable.
This is what I did two years ago when I first became President and now, two years later, instead of having 10 active mebers where 4 or 5 did everything we have 40 active members who can help the 10 that are still going to do the majority.
Good luck,
presidentJim