childrenfirst,
I think you might be misunderstanding what I, CapeDad and others are saying. Again it all comes down to what you want out of your group. Also, I would imagine that a High School PTO would be somewhat different than an Elementary PTO. The point is that sometimes the administration's priorities are different than the parents (or PTO's). That doesn't necessarily make the Principal's priorities the correct or incorrect way to go, just at times different. For example, right now we (the PTO) want to help presuade the teachers into taking the students on away from school Field Trips. IMO this is a great learning opportunity for the children. Remember how fun those trips were when you were a kid? But what if your Principal did not agree with that and was more than willing to support in-house enrichment instead of away from school Field Trips? If you are a committee that controls their own funds then you decide what you want the funds to be used for. The other way allows the Principal to use those funds for whatever they want. This is what I disagree with...
It is quite possible, that with the correct type of principal, that this way to handling things would not be an issue. But what if you had a Principal that decided that they were going to use your hard earned funds to replace the roof? Or to purchase every staff member a personal laptop computer?
Now this may seem farfetched, but what if? Some of you may think that if the Principal feels that this is the way the funds should be used then that is the best for the school, but again, IMO, it comes down to the purpose of your group. Some have explained a system that makes it sound as though the purpose of their group is to fundraise, at the request of the Principal, for a specific reason. I'm sure that can work out well, but, again IMO, that sounds more like a fundraising committee than a Parent-Teacher Organization. As I and CapeDad have suggested this type of system seems to actually have a President and a Treasurer, but they are both the school's Principal. Again IMO, if most of us agree that it would not be a good idea to have a PTO President solely responsible of the group's funds (effectively as the Treasurer) then the same could be said for this system where the Principal is effectively deciding how to use the money and then signing the checks.
Though I want to state again that there is not just one way of doing things. What seems like bad precidence to me may be perfect for others. If it works for you then great. I don't think this is an issue of egos on our parts, and we all do understand that the school's Principal knows what is needed. But it always comes down to what your group's purpose is. I assume that all of our group's purpose is to "put the children first", but it comes down to how you are going to do that. Personally I am glad that I am part of a group that raises, controls and decides how to do this and that we don't just effectively hand over a blank check.
Good luck,
PresidentJim