Wow. I'm stunned. We operate with about $15,000 to $20,000 a year, and it's like pulling teeth. We're planning to cut back on our costs more next year -- we'll pick projects that don't cost as much. But we're cheap here, I guess. For instance, our teacher luncheon costs $0, because we have a coordinator call the PARENTS to bring in stuff. We scrounge for donations for our carnival, and usually get all the hot dogs and hamburgers and soda donated. We spent our money this year on 2 shade structures for the playground, die cuts, room money for new teachers, the big party for kids who met their reading goal, and little incidentals throughout the year. Most of our events pay for themselves with a small profit (pictures with Santa, Grandparents Day, School Supplies, etc.) The school pays for field trip costs for the kids who can't afford it; the rest just pay for their own field trip. The facts of life are that we all have to be frugal and make sure our hard-earned dollars are being spent for real academic enrichment programs. Our parents freak about the fundraising we do already -- can't imagine if we were looking for $70,000. Yikes. Our principal would never approve such expensive activities and put the burden on the parents. It sounds like you need a parent meeting to lay out all of the previous obligations, then have parents vote on the priorities. Just like if it were your budget at home. That way they'd be on board about fundraising for those events, but they wouldn't feel like the school was using them as a bottomless pit of money. Of course, maybe where you live, people are unwilling to economize. If that's the attitude, it's hard to change it.
By the way, we tried that "donate money instead of doing catalog sales" thing, in response to parents who said they'd rather just give. Well, they must have been home sick that month, because what they were willing to give was really small. We're not going to repeat that hassle again!