I think the reason for SEPTO's creation in the first place is because Spec Ed parents have issues specific to them and needed more of a support group atmosphere, and a forum for speakers pertaining to Spec Ed issues, ie. advocacy, specific disability info, etc.
Parents are certainly allowed to be a part of both PTO's. The problem is 2-fold, it is disheartening for parents of more severely disabled children to help plan events with the Gen Ed PTO where their children problably aren't going to be a part of, and second, there is a large population of children with less severe disabilites, where the parents don't attend SEPTO. Currently Septo is mainly attended by the parents of the more severely disabled kids.
We do not do any fundraising events of our own. The PTO's do an amazing amount of fundraising, there is always on going events, they make in the high ten's of thousands each year. Our Septo pres has never had the man power to do any kind of fundraising, and we don't want to compete with a PTO fundraiser. So she has asked each of the building PTOs for donations, most give between $250-$400 each, we have 8 buildings in the district.
I'm not saying this is an ideal situation. I definately want to create a more inclusive environement. That is a big issue of Septo is to try an get the schools and community to be more accepting of our children.
We have a large district , and a large population of children with disabilites, approx 1700. We have a wide range of classroom options, 6-1-1, 8-1-1, 12-1-1, Collaborative (2 teachers co-teaching, one gen ed, one spec ed, kids are a mix of both), Resource room, etc.
This is a great point, How do I get the PTO's to be better linked?