Well, I am not sure if the latest post elicits a response or not, but I'd be remiss to pass up yet another opportunity to clarify my original post, which yet again seems to have been misunderstood by a PTA member all too eager to place system over people. The downfall of many PTAs is in the opposite of the following quote: We must not let a problem to be solved become more important than the people.
First and foremost, my posts in no way, shape or form have been to promote the safety cards my company sells. If I had wished to promote them, I would have posted more information, which I did not; nor did I once try to convince any one to use them. I simply offered them as an example. We are not a fundraiser company. We sell these to other businesses. We simply started offering these to schools locally because we saw a need for schools to sell educational, health-related items over pizza, cookie dough, etc. In that way, alone, we were supporting our schools.
As for the personal remarks disparaging my supposed lack of school support: This speaks to the exact point I made earlier: there is a growing gap between the PTA and the families that make up the schools. And it is a dangerous, ever-widening threat we would all be wise to consider.
Here, within this post, a future president takes time to chide my lack of support. My advice is this: know your audience. We cannot judge a persons support based on monetary output, and we certainly cannot afford to judge them based on our own criteria of what "support" is when we do not understand their circumstances compared to ours.
That said, I'd be happy to provide you with a list of the many instances my wife and I have supported our schools. In its simplest form, my wife donates her time as art docent, on field trips, and during craft time, not to mention with donations of supplies and money. Personally, having been lucky enough to have a middle reader book published a couple years ago, I've donated my time to teach kids how to write. This year I offered free assemblies to each school within our district to help kids learn how to communicate and improve life through creative writing. I've donated my own books to students-in-need and to school libraries. And, as I do every year, I donated almost 2000 other kids books to school groups in and out of our district. And yes, I even donated some of the safety cards to schools. On top of that, we are in contact with our kids' teachers; we work with our kids to make sure they are working hard and being respectful and helpful; and we attend the fundraisers as time and wisdom allow. What more support can I give?
I have been lucky enough to be able to support my school in such a manner. It has not been nor will it always be the case. Still, all that, compared to the Widow's mite offered by a family with less means, is equal in support.
Again, through all of my posts, my point is this: consider the people. I am all for the carnival. I've seen some good ones and I've seen some bad ones. I've seen events where people have money and others where families who do not have the money to spend on frivolous games spend it anyway in order to appease the powers that be, and satisfy the excitement of their children. I've seen events where families walk away praising their school and I've seen many where parents walk away feeling distanced and frustrated with the PTA, school, etc.
I am not preaching one absolute way. I am simply saying let's make sure think creatively. Let's make sure we use wisdom in our decisions. And let's make sure we consider the needs of the people while trying in earnest to satisfy the needs of our schools. Because if people start to get burned out, it will take a lightning storm to rekindle the fire of their support. In this area, we have seen that, which is why we started to promoting something useful.
Now, let's stop fighting windmills and go out and use our minds to do something proactive.
Best of luck to us all. Heaven knows schools need our help.
Best,
Arthur