Hi PTOSIMP -
I think Aretha is making the switch sound more difficult/extreme than it really is. Remember that more than 70% of K-8 parent groups are independent PTOs, so it's definitely doable.
You should consult your bylaws. Those would be your guide for dissolving your PTA. If your group has decided to dissolve, then I would juts quietly follow the steps outlined in the bylaws. I wouldn't get the state office all that involved (juts the minimum involvement required by your bylaws), because I've just heard too many stories about the state offices making things very difficult/ugly.
The "starting a PTO" process is completely separate from dissolving your PTA. You can start your PTO, while the PTA is still going through the process of dissolving. In fact, at this time of year that's exactly what I would recommend. Start your PTO now, get a bank account for PTO, start putting "PTO" on your newsletters, etc. The vast majority of your parents won't even know/care/understand the difference.
At the same time, you can be spending down the funds in your PTA account, going through the dissolve steps, and setting up the PTO.
If you explore the "PTO v PTA" section of this forum and read our PTO v PTA FAQ section (
www.ptotoday.com/ptofaq.html
), you'll have a great head start.
Good luck,
Tim