Good luck with your vote. While I am no expert, here is my personal opinion: Hang tough and don't be intimidated. Intimidation tactics by the GA PTA only make me question what are they so scared of? If something really is good and valuable...people will want to keep it around without being threatened. Our school is in Sandy Springs, and we suspect that many schools in North Fulton are also considering becoming PTO's. People have suggested to me that the Georgia PTA is afraid that it will become a trend in metro Atlanta. While one school leaving won't affect the GA PTA's financial bottom line...several schools leaving would - especially in metro Atlanta.
Here is what I think is important to remember about the Georgia PTA. There is NOTHING in the bylaws (which you have undoubtedly noticed) instructing a local unit on how to dissolve. It only says that upon dissolution that you must turn over your funds to another 501(c)(3) with similar purposes. If the Georgia PTA tells you that you aren't following the bylaws...ask them to tell you exactly which bylaws you aren't following. We have asked, in writing, several times since December for them to show us the by-laws they allege that we are violating in our plans for dissolution, and they have never provided that information.
Instead, they refer us to a checklist they sent us (AFTER they found out we planned to dissolve)...which is nothing more than a word document which no one has ever seen before. It is not referenced anywhere in the by-laws we agreed to follow. As a local unit, we agreed to follow the bylaws - NOT any & all "secret" rules that the Georgia PTA decides to create on their own and impose whenever they don't like what we're doing. They cannot randomly impose self-created checklists that exist outside the by-laws on local units, anymore than I (as co-president of our PTA local unit) could randomly decide to impose my own set of rules on my membership outside of the bylaws. Could I say that all memberss must also wash my car before they are allowed to discuss a budget amendment? I don't think so! The checklist is nothing more than a written intimidation tactic to me, and is in no way binding on ANY local unit. I would urge all local units to consider my point of view on this. Also, the checklist is ridiculous...one part suggests a 2/3 vote is required, and in another place it says "unanimous". It also requires a list of names of everyone who wants to dissolve...which is a little too much like union thuggery or KGB-like in my personal opinion. Why would they need those names??!
In the end, YOU control your destiny...NOT them. If the overwhelming view at your school (at mine we have 650 members in the PTA- with a school population of 550 students, and only 2 families have expressed objections to becoming a PTO!) is to go PTO...then do it! Will a PTA exist at your school next year if there is no one to run it? So, why even vote to dissolve? Why not word the vote to say "we want to be a PTO next year" and ignore the word "dissolution" entirely? Finish out your year as a PTA (or the shell of one), spend down your money, and walk away? Start up your PTO next year with new money, and you're on your way!
Don't get all tied up in feeling intimidated. Ask yourself, what can the PTA really do to you?? Be angry? Um, ok. Threaten to take your money? No money left. Threaten to pull your charter? Um, ok. We weren't gonna need it anyway.
Again, this is all my personal opinion. You need to do what you feel is best for your school. In my personal opinion, you take away a bully's power when you look them straight in the eye and say "I'm not gonna take that from you".