I all to well know exactly what you are going through.My daughter is in 3rd grade now and I have always been the room mother since Kindergarten. I have been able to become friends with most of the staff and teachers.However I encountered an incident last year that left me somewhat bitter.
Each Christmas K-5 take 3 buses to a larger city 1hour(68miles) away from our school to watch a movie then play at the park(this takes the place of the class party).Along with the permission slips there was an attached note that read:
Chaperones are limited and each teacher will pick one parent from each class.If you are not chosen and plan to attend the field trip you will be asked to leave.But you may come to the park but younger siblings cannot attend.
It gets worse this was also the same note that was sent at the Easter field trip also.
Even worse at the very bottom in smaller print:
*If your child does not come to school that day
he/she will be marked absent*
Due to block scheduling our students are only allowed to miss 10 excused days per year. What's worse is that 1 month prior to this field trip a
6 year old girl was kidnapped, raped and murdered in this same nieghborhood that the park was located in. And what's even more disturbing despite parents view's in wich were discussed amongst ourselves.No one went to the principal with this except for me. When it came face off time nobody came in my defense. So you tell me what's wrong with this picture :confused: and when did being a concerned parent that wanted to be involved in thier childrens school become an annoying parent.
Since then I have developed a better relationship with our principal and I am a Sub. now but even though I may fit in that teachers cliche.
I still have no reserve in expressing my views with them on excluding parent's and as much as I fight for parent involvement with PTO I still can't get parent's to take charge and address thier issues openly.In fact I can't get any involvement. :confused:
Anyway my advice to you is the same in wich my Grandmother give me years ago. [img]redface.gif[/img] "If you don't stand up for what you believe in ,
you might as well not even believe it,because no one else is going to do it for you."
**Since talking to the principal more parent's are able to attend some of the field trips,and we do not recieve the sh**ty little notes anymore**
Good Luck
Rememember somtimes 1 person can make a
:eek: diffrence
[ 01-07-2005, 03:13 AM: Message edited by: PREZonPAXIL ]