Newbie2009 and Jewel,
Thanks for your replies. Newbie, you had asked what my relationship is to our PTO VP. I was a fellow board member but had to resign a few months back mainly because of this person. I am still an active volunteer with PTO (just not in a board position) and, despite my personal feelings about her, try to keep it professional for the betterment of the school and PTO's goals. That said, this person's behavior and lack of respect for others who serve has helped create much dysfunction and frustration among the board. While she brings good ideas and energy to the table, she is very unorganized, not a team player, and is into "cliques." She also has a close friendship with our Asst Principal (you may have seen my earlier post about this) that several board members and parents have noticed and question. She seems to delight in sharing news of their outings and get togethers with others, which I just don't get. While the board hasn't had a problem moving forward on issues because of this relationship, it is still apparent it is the "white elephant in the room". From my point of view, our President and Principal are not as involved in addressing conflict as they should be, and between the relationship with the asst principal and the newly revealed criminal record, it will be interesting to see if they address either issue.
Jewel, thankfully our VP is not the only signer on the account. The fact that she has not been removed as a signer is what has me concerned. All of our volunteers are required to complete criminal background checks, but hers for whatever reason, did not come back flagged. If it did, I did not hear about it and I was the Volunteer Coordinator. It's possible our Principal addressed the matter privately with her, but again, why risk compromising the integrity of your PTO and not just ask her to resign? Or at best alert the President and Treasurer and remove her as a signer? I'm sure our Principal's sympathies are with her because she has a sick child, and maybe I'm just a wicked witch by feeling this way, but I just feel this person has gotten away with horrible behavior for too long and is playing on people's symathies to get away with it.
I'm sorry for writing so much, but it does feel good to get it off my chest. I'm glad I did my part in sharing the criminal background with the President. He agreed it was the right thing to do and now I guess the ball is in his court.
Thanks again for your replies, it's always great to get another point of view.