Hi sharilee10,
Last year I learned that the beginning of the year is your best chance to get new members. We held our first Back to School Ice Cream Party last year, on the first day of school, and it ended up making a huge difference throughout the year. I had an involvement table set up with handouts and a place where parents/guardians could provide contact information. I tried my best to not make it a high pressure sales pitch, but more or less let the parents come to me. For the handouts I had a few different articles that I printed off from PTOtoday. One focused on the benefits of fathers being involved, and how it greatly affects children's scores at school, especially in the science and math areas, and especially for girls. Another was written by five different PTOers and talked about "Why we do it". In addition I had some eye catching comments, such as "We want you!" and "The most common reason that parents don't get involved is that they are not asked, consider yourself asked!.
This led to us having more attendance at the first meeting than ever before and more active members throughout the year. And even though you're not going to keep all of those who show up to the first meeting active throughout the year, you will end up keeping some, which really can make the difference.
In addition we started providing elementary age childcare during our meetings. This definitely helped five or six of the moms, but more importantly it led to a 300% increase in dads becoming active. If someone has to stay home and watch the kids, then the dads usually do (during the PTO meetings). But with the childcare the dads start thinking, "maybe I should go". I think my being a male President may have helped a bit as well, but once some of the dads start seeing other dads involved they start to realize that the PTO is not just a moms group.
Per my group's Bylaws, "Every parent, guardian and member of the professional staff are automatically a member of the PTO". I promote this concept so that the parents realize that this is not some exclusive group, in fact, it's a group that they are already a member of by default. I also promote how "active membership" is what is needed. I also have a letter that I provide to every new parent/guardian that explain who we are, what we do, etc..
Again, per our Bylaws there is no cost associated with being a member, and I like it this way. I've heard of some groups that claim that they have over 100 or 200 members, but all that really means (usually) is that over 100 or 200 people have paid the dues. It does not reflect active membership (usually). By having no dues you won't get those who think they are involved because they just paid the 5 bucks, and you won't have to get on people come next year when it's time to pay up again. In my opinion the active members do so much over the course of the year that asking them to pay dues, even something as minimal as say $5, is not needed. Of course, this is only my opinion and I am sure that there are many groups that do have dues and it may work for them.
The benefits of membership is being able to have a say as to how the group affects our children's educational experience. Not everyone can attend the meetings, and not everyone who comes to the meetings ends up chairing events or becoming an officer, but any group's President knows who the active members are. I put pictures of all of my group's members on the Members page of my website. Under their names I list the roles that they have taken on. For some there are upwards of 10 different roles that they have listed, but I think this gives them pride. This can also lead to others wanting to take on some new roles or joining one of our committees. All active members receive the monthly agenda before the meeting, with a reminder of the upcoming meeting, as well as the meeting minutes. Out Principal is extremely supportive and is at all of our meetings and most of our events. By being involved it provides the parents insight into some of the Principal's priorities as well as what is going on within the school.
Anyway, hope this helps.
PresidentJim