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PTO agenda - curiosity question

19 years 4 months ago #112670 by Keepin' Busy
Replied by Keepin' Busy on topic RE: PTO agenda - curiosity question
As a co-founder of Three for Me, I wanted to share some of our thoughts, experiences and remarks from parents around the country about volunteers. We are two moms that volunteer; a lot! We are into everything. Myself and the gal that started Three for Me are the types of people that never say "no". We volunteer because it benefits our children and all children at our school. For many parents, that alone, is enough to get involved, but the reality is that far too many parents don't volunteer because of one of many reasons they can list off. The unreachables seem to be the majority of dads. So, we started Three for Me to reach out to that untapped group of parents which, we hoped to intrigue with a simple promise; three hours of volunteerism for the entire school year.
But, I say this so that you all realize that we are in the trenches with you every day; coordinating help, planning events and program, raising funds, etc., to benefit our school and the children.
Coordinating volunteers is simple if you have a plan in place. You don't have to start from scratch or change anything about your committees or how they operate when you start Three for Me. Basically, you will add a committee team that will help plug volunteers into place. This team will contact EVERY volunteer by phone or email and get them plugged-in to an activity or event. Whether it's at school, in the evening, from home, etc. Then they will hand off the information to the chairperson of that committee. The chairperson then takes over. Three for Me, reaches out to parents, many who have never volunteered before and gives them a simple and non-threatening goal to get involved in their child's educational experience.
Parents see the light at the end of the tunnel with the three hour commitment. Most parents volunteer four times as much on average. You'll also increase the number of volunteers to produce successful events.
A key to success with any parent group is to coordinate your volunteers effectively and consistently. By having a volunteer coordinator and a team, you have structure and "go to" people. The sad and common remark that I have heard from parents around the country is, "I signed up and no one ever called." Or, "I want to volunteer, but don't know how to get involved."
Some schools are having a lot of success by making their room parent a person on the Volunteer Coord. Team. Then, that room parent oversees, contacts, and helps get those parents in that specific classroom get plugged-in to volunteering. Always remembering to reach out to moms and dads and grandparents and uncles and older siblings, etc. That works well in the elementary schools.
At the middle school, you need a team of people on the vol. coord committee to share in the workload to contact volunteers. It helps to put a team together at each grade level in the middle school. Those parents know each other and will share common interests about the school.
At the High School, you break it down by sports, music, art, technology, etc. Parents are more drawn to volunteer when their child is involved in the activity.
Overall, Three for Me works will help to reach out to new parents, parents that have not volunteered and to many important family members of the child. It makes parent group leaders re-think how they coordinate volunteers. The PTO Software to track volunteers looks awesome. This is definitely a piece of software that you should look into. Good luck and feel free to check out our site or email us anytime. Everything is free. We will even customize a promise card and certificate template with your school's name and then you can make copies as needed. www.three4me.com.
19 years 4 months ago #112669 by antelala
Could I get a copy of that too Pals?

Thanks!
Angela
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19 years 4 months ago #112668 by 4boys&2girls
Replied by 4boys&2girls on topic RE: PTO agenda - curiosity question
Erin O ,

Go to three4me.com. It's a wonderful website that actually helps you get parents to committ time to the school.

~Gracee
19 years 5 months ago #112667 by Holly Eighmy
Hey PALS... Can I have a copy of your Pledge?

Thanks so much,
Holly
McCaw PTA

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19 years 5 months ago #112666 by Erin O
Replied by Erin O on topic RE: PTO agenda - curiosity question
Can someone tell me what the Three4Me program is??
Thanks!
19 years 5 months ago #112665 by pals
Wow...I could go on for hours about this subject. I think that increasing parent/family involvement is the one goal that all groups have in common. Maybe it isn't written down but think about all you do and how you want people to come.

When a school hasnt had a high level of volunteering you may reach resistance and then you have to be patience, take a little at a time. I went through this , seems there was past history that caused some hard feelings between staff and parents. through the last four years we have worked very hard and the parents and staff relationship have never been better in years!

I have learned so much about parent involvement the last few years and if I had to share tips on increasing it I would start with flyers home. Don't stop with that have a booth with a scrapbook at kindergarten registration/screening, do a skit or power point during k orientation, When someone does help send a personal thank you, follow up if someone hasn't helped in a while. Did someone say something, did something make them feel uncomfortable? Make parents feel that they are special just for attending a event with their child, think about all of the kids that don't have the ability to do so. acknowledge as many as you can, go around during your events, make eye contact and talk with them. Dont hit them up just be freindly. Do this enough and it will pay off. dont forget the big banner saying "another fun event being brought to you by xyz pto"!

Your group is like a business it needs to be advertised, any event you do or sponser make sure that your groups name is on it, over and over. Your group will become a house hold name....trust me....ours did. It works, you will also find that if you get one person hitched then chances are they will get a friend involved. Be positive, let people see you having fun and always always say thank you.

I also want to remark on c. brooks answer, shes right parent involvement isn't just about pto meetings and volunteering. some kids need parents to be more involved with them acdaemically than they need to worry about a fun night. Involvement can be reading with your child, going over homework, attending a conference, attending a sporting or music event, attending a grandparent luncheon, checking their backpack, a field trip, sending in supplies, helping them dress up for disco day, and the list goes on. I learned this the hard way some parents want to help but just can't and we need to be careful not to let others think that because we volunteer so much we are helping our kids more. Involvement can happen in so many ways, a few years ago we sent home our Lanigan Pledge, what it was was a list of ways parents could help their child, we received a ton back because the list consisted of things that the parents actually felt they could do.

yes in a idea world we would have a unlimited supply of volunteers yet statistics show that only a little over 30% of parents are involved internally at school, 60% will attend school functions when asked or invited. If any of us ever get the magic answer we will be rich until then just take step at a time! Good luck and hang in there...it will work

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