I was searching for some kind of statistic as well for our Kindergarten orientation, but never found the right format...but I did modify the following to include the items I thought were appropriate for school and read it when I closed my welcome to the parents. It may not be exactly what you are looking for, but thought it might help.....
When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my first painting on
>the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking I saw how you loved our animals and
>how you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to
>animals.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I watched you make my favorite cake for
>me
>and I learned that the little things people do can be the special things in
>life.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a prayer, and I knew
>there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust in God.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I watched you make a meal and take it to
>a
>friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of
>each other.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I watched you give of your time and
>money
>to help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have something
>should give to those who don't.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I felt you kiss me good night and I
>felt loved and safe in the comfort of my own home.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I watched you take care of our house and
>everyone in it and I learned we have responsibilites and have to take care
>of
>the things that we are given.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I watched carefully how you handled your
>responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that I
>would have to be likewise responsible when I grow up.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come from your eyes and I
>learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's all right to cry.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you cared and I wanted to be
>everything that I could be, I wanted to be like you.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most of life's lessons that I
>need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.
>
>When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you and wanted to say,
>"Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking."
>
>Each of us, parent, grandparent, aunts, uncles, relative or friend,
>influence
>the
>life of a child in some way.