I am having a PhD come and discuss Crisis Support with our parents. She will discuss everything from divorce, death to the 9/11 anniversary. She will probably start with better communication and then lead into crisis.
We have not yet discussed this issue yet. However, I would assume that the President will once again call on schools to say the pledge at a designated time countrywide and a moment of silence. Although it would be nice to honor the victims in some way. I have thought about purchasing a "freedom tree" planting it on the grounds and having a memorial plaque near it.