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18 years 10 months ago #76624 by lyon
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Bertha,


I guess I am very lucky, because we have an awesome State PTA, and our workshops are worth the small fee which pretty much pays for just lunch and handouts. We have field service that visits and not only help whenever needed, but come for happy visits, which are just that a social event to get to know as many of our parents as possible, and sometimes we even partner up with different districts. It beneifts all of us. But I cannot comment on your situation, because I don't live there, but that is really a shame. And your right one bad seed can ruin it for others.
18 years 10 months ago #76623 by Bertha
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Lyon- count yourself as one of the lucky ones. Here in NJ we must have all the corrupt or really stupid ones on our County level.

Yes, PTA does offer workshops and training sessions, at a cost. Is it worth the money, I went to the training sessions for 6 years in a row, each time leaving with the feeling as "that was a complete waste of my time". They didn't offer any inspiring information or insight. Informative? No, not really. I got more information from their website than I did at the training sessions. I kept going back thinking, this time I'm going learn something new. Never happened!

As far as support goes- never saw any type of support over here. Please don't give me that "is there, but you need to take advantage of it" garbage. Over here, there is no suppport what-so-ever. We decided we just weren't getting what we were paying for. Not to worry, NJ State PTA is well aware of our problems as well as the problems with the other PTA's in our area.

You see,One bad seed can really ruin it for all!
18 years 10 months ago #76622 by lyon
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Any group organization can be run by individuals who are underhanded, corrupt, or just plain bad leaders. It does not matter whether you are a PTA or a PTO, or any other PT other. The PTA does offer support, workshops and training, if a PTA does not take advantage of it, they have no one to blame but themselves, and maybe they should not be in those postions to they should not be in those type of positions, begin with. By the way that michiganmom was right, we cannot speak for other states, but the Michigan State PTA has a wonderful support system.
18 years 10 months ago #76621 by Bertha
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It's not the Michigan PTA that I have a problem with.It's the way michigan mom states her facts, sorry but not every PTA is as wonderful or honest as sh'ed like us all to believe.

One of the County PTA's in Northern NJ has a huge problem. They are far from wonderful, they like to pick and choose who they will help and what issues and problems will be swept under the rug.

When County PTA can to our dissaffiliation meeting they said a lot of things about following the rules, whats allowed and whats not, etc.We have this other school in townand they are going through some problems. The county PTA was called and all of the sudden this County Rep is now back-peddling and changing her tune. She's willing to sweep a lot of stuff under the rug just to keep them PTA.

All the other schools in town jumped off the PTA boat and since this school is the last PTA in town and this so-called Rep is from our town, she feels it would be poor reflection on her if she loses this school too.

At what point is it ok for a PTA, or any group for that matter, to think they are justified in covering up and hiding things from the general membership? What makes it worse over by us is that the County Rep is allowing it to happen.

And to think, this is what we pay dues for? They really make you feel like your getting you monies worth! They're always there when you need them, NOT!
18 years 10 months ago #76620 by SAFin RI
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FYI:Every PTA requires the budget be approved by the general membership. Every PTA requires annual audits. These are commonalities of every local unit PTA.

The only PTA left in our town always hides the finances. They are not at all forthcoming. And the best part of all is that when someone went to county PTA about this,all county had to say was "well, you know". Seems like PTA isn't as wonderful as Michigan mom makes them out to be!

It should be basic to any well run parent group, PTO or PTA, that budgets are public record to the members!

Bertha, not sure what "well, you know" means but I do know that state and most local by-laws require open reporting. I cannot imagine the Michigan PTA not responding to their members requests.
18 years 10 months ago #76619 by kmamom
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AMomof3- Welcome to the boards!

I'm a little confused by your posting, but it sounds like you don't want to show the finances. Mum24 has it right. To be honest, as annoying as it is to have someone questioning your every step, it's just easier to be forthcoming and answer the questions. As soon as you look like you're hiding something, even if there isn't anything to hide, people will never trust you.
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