Going to the Principal is not an option. The Principal likes her.
Sorry, but I have to wonder if this couldn't be an advantage!
THE PTO NEEDS to have the books audited...not you, not her, not the other new parents involved but
THE PTO and
right now... we can only hope that she has nothing to hide.
I would hope the Principal would help only because there are some hard feelings, you know they have a friendship (business or personal) and hope that she (the Principal) would be able to help as a mediator in this situation.
The PTO really needs to have the Treasurer books audited as a basic housekeeping measure.
Other than that, short of setting an appointment with the auditor and letting her know this is when the books need to be turn into or given to the auditor for review, this is a tough situation.Unfortunatly, you know how you would handle yourself but we can't control the feelings of others. If she is truely hurt, there could be something there but if she is just
about the election, end of the year, not winning, rejection............she needs time to deal. Meantime (just like with our own kids when we hope that they can resolve and issue amongst themselves, we can step in) you need a mediator. yesterday!