As often on these board there are initial questions that need to be asked before we can provide the answers...
- Is you group and independant 501(C)3 non-profit organization?
The reason this is so important is because it effectively answers what "rights" the Principal has. What I mean is that some groups that may give themselves the name "PTO" fall under the school and as such are under the control of the school and the Principal. If your group is of this type then the Principal really can do everything that she did. But if you are, like most of us, a non-profit 501(C)3, then you are independant and I would say that she borke some protocol. Though:
- What does your Bylaws state?
This is very important as well. If your group does not have Bylaws then you really do need them. They protect you from issues of this nature. In addition, like FoxMom wrote, many Bylaws will indicate what responsibilities a staff member (non-parent) can have. Often the Bylaws will not allow a staff members to be an Executive Board member as it can protect the group. For example there have been cases where a Principal has pushed to have staff members become President, Treasurer, etc. If something like this was to happen then even though the group is independant, it can still end up being controlled by the Principal. This is a bit off point, sorry...
In regards to your Bylaws, if you have them, hopefully it has something regarding how finances are handled. For example, my group's Bylaws indicate that only the Directors of the organization, or those designated by the Directors, can handle monies. This would, or should, prevent something like what you explained from happening.
So, by your Bylaws, or just by how things are done, who decides how the funds are used? The fact that your Principal went ahead and held the event anyway suggests that she has plans/pupose for those funds.
But, as the others have suggested, in the end the Principal is the final authority. Should she have rescheduled the bake sale? Well, not without discussing it with you first.
Should she have held it without your group's buy-in? Well, depending on your Bylaws, likely not.
So what has happened to the funds that were raised? Have they been provided to your group's Treasurer? Was the correct form filled out?
More than likely, if this bake sale did not fall under your group, it was on the illegal side. I do not believe that a fundraiser can be held by a public school, unless it falls under a group such as a PTO (I may be mistaken in this).
But in the end you don't want to upset her more than you may have already done. If she decided to stand against your group it will make things very difficult for you and we'll be posting to your next post about what recourse does your group have when your Principal won't allow you to do anything at the school. Hopefully it won't get to that point.
The big issue to me, and the one that needs to be addressed, is how you and your group was left out of the decision making on rescheduling. This was the one bad protocol by the Principal and shouldn't have happened.
Hope things work out and let us know.
PresidentJim