I concur with the suggestion that you publically create a new group, new name, new attitude.
Regarding the current bank balance...it belongs--at least in spirit--to the PTO old or new. Now how to get your hands on it?
Go to the school's biz office and ask for their tax id #. Explain that you are researching your PTO's bank account. Then go to bank where the PTO's account is held and ask the manager to verify if the account was set up using the school's tax id #. If so, the money belongs to the school and it's theirs to collect. If it's a different tax id #, presumably one that was set up for the PTO itself, ask if you can have that number. I think you can then call the IRS and verify the name of the owner of that tax id #. It's possible for the originator of the account to have used a valid tax id# on behalf of the PTO, that really belongs to another entity (that happened to us way back - the tax id# was really the school district's number, but the account name was our PTO). Depending on your relationship with the bank and how sincere you are, the bank might tell you the on hand balance so you know how much money you're chasing.
First steps to getting organized - appoint directors who draft bylaws that include procedures for electing officers and a policy requiring an annual financial review, among other things. Get a NEW tax id # from the IRS using form SS-4 (
www.irs.gov
) for the new group. With that number, you can open a new small biz checking account. You don't need to worry about the federal 501c3 status for a while, a year or more. Concentrate on getting your NEW PTO off the ground locally, and then formalize your structure as the group matures organizationally. Hang in there!
One of the best tools to help you thru all this is the PTOToday Start Up Guide. It explains the technical stuff in layman's terms. You can order a copy from this website.