posted 11-05-2003 10:32 AM
I'd like to thank each of you who have taken time to reply to me. Your advise and knowledge has been very useful and enlightening. I am getting a crash course (shame on me, I know) in regarding our local PTO and school's site based committee policies, and am still learning.
A small group of recess supporters address our schools site based committee yesterday. Placed on a 3 min. time limit we had prepared a package of information which included more than 13 nationally acclaimed org. and assoc.'s which have documented studies, recommendations, and positions papers in support of the importance of recess for elementary school aged children.
To my shock and dismay the PTO president (who had attacked me in her telephone response to my request to address the PTO on the same issue) was seated right next to the principal of the school. She is on the site based "decision-making" committee at our school in the role as PTO president. In our phone conversation, mentioned in 1st posted, I had told her we would be addressing the site based committee and invited her or any of the PTO board members to attend, or we would like to address their board at their net meeting....and that when she became so verbally defensive and rude stating to me that "PTO has nothing to do with the recess issue, and that I can address the PTO board, but will be wasting my time!". She didn't even have the decency to inform me she is on that school committee and would be in attendance.
After a incredible "run-a-round" yesterday I was able to obtain a copy of our PTO's bylaws. And they adhere to the Roberts Rule (revised).
Reading what I could find here and inline of the Roberts rule and the copy of their bylaws...I have a storm of concerns and questions I am hopeful that you all will be willing to advise/help me with. And I thank you in advance.
1.) Her rude address to my inquiry. Isn't there a specific section in the Roberts rule that states "Above all be COURTEOUS"?
2.) Because the bylaws Article II, section 1 states: “the organizations objective is... to promote the welfare of children and youth in home, school and community ...", then wouldn’t the issue we want to present indeed be an issue the PTO can and should be involved in? Would not the refusal of the President to do so, would be a violation of the very by laws they are sworn and empowered to enforce? (As DaveP pointed out in his reply)
3.) And as for her comment that this is a ISD policy and PTO can not be involved in mandated curriculum, I tried to inform her that this is NOT a mandated policy anywhere in Texas Education laws (We hope to eventually change that)… our local school board leaves the issue to the individual schools “decision making site-based committeesâ€, and therefore this is NOT a political issue. I was actually directed by our Asst. Superintendent to address my concerns to this committee and our PTO from the beginning.
4.) Now, I have not purchased a copy of the revised Roberts Rule, yet, but it is my understanding that the Parliamentary rule. The president told me the PTO does not have anything to do with the issue, and I will be wasting my time… Her statement conveyed to me she is speaking for the board and a decision has already been made. Wouldn’t that be dictatorship? And how can you have both, a dictator and a Parliamentarian organization?
5.) Addressing the issue of the PTO not becoming advocates for any cause, well I misunderstand the word advocate almost as much as I misunderstand the role or relevance of our PTO: When children are the supposed priority, and the PTO has to promote the welfare of the children…then do they not become children’s advocates? And if not, when a child can neither vote nor speak for themselves and relies on the adults of the world to make and secure their rights….isn’t it all of our jobs to be advocates?
Well, having addressed the “site-based decision making committee†at our school, I have been informed by our principal that I misunderstand the role of that committee as well…and “they are simply an advisory committee to her and at the end of each day she makes the decisions regarding the children’s instructional dayâ€â€¦. I’ll admit that I must be more confused then I even dreamed. But something my dear old dad used to tell me has a resounding truth to it for me regarding our PTO President and school Principal ….and that is “If it smells bad, it is most probably rotten! And will without a doubt have ill effectsâ€.
Down, but not for the count! ~ Sandy