suellen, I may be in a different situation than others because we have a small school and don't have the ability to raise tons of money, but I can't see how spending 1/2 the budget can be justified. I am 100% pro teacher. Love them. Don't see anything wrong with providing the needs in their classroom and giving them a treat of food once or twice a year. Thankfully, the majority of the teachers at our school would be uncomfortable knowing that parents have supported the PTO and that much of the funds was being used for teacher gifts/food. I can't imagine, either, that if the parents at our school realized this was happening, they would not pretty much have a little hissy fit. hahahaha I would say, new officers, soon. hehehehe Our school has too many needs. We need playground equipment, computers, library books, the list goes on and on. I feel like I, as an officer, have an obligation and duty to disburse the funds of the PTO to make the students learning environment and school the best it can be with the funds we have available. Can't see how spending 1/2 the budget to buy teachers gifts and food could possibly accomplish that goal. I do realize that fundraising isn't the only duty of the PTO, but, unfortunately, we have to do it.
As for the teachers joining the PTO, well, it is called Parent TEACHER Organization. Don't see how they can't be allowed to join. I have found that they and the principal can be the PTO's best guidance in determinig the needs of the school, therefore helping make sure the funds are dispursed properly. I feel like the parents, teachers and principal have to be a "team" in order for the PTO to be it's best. Doesn't need to be any power trips going on. If everyone keeps the best interests of the students and school as a whole at heart, then it's quite easy to run effectively, otherwise, you have trouble. Been there
Wish you the best. Good Luck.