kmamom-
Not sure what your relationship is with the Principal but let me offer this. When you shop in a dept. store and given the chance to tell a manager about the customer service you did or didn't recieve, (well, I do) you say something. Especially when the situation could have been handled better. Same here. Your Pricipal wants to know about concerns like this, please don't make this an issue but rather a concern. As far as curriculum, our school is a Core Knowledge so THAT IS and ALWAYS will be the curriculum but my son is NOT doing the same work that my daughter would have done 6 years ago because of the consant training and in-service and a convention our teachers attend to keep a good idea, good!
Our Principaal visits each room at least twice a month (we are K-12, lots of rooms!) and notes their good days and bad but the teachers that have been let go, for the most part, the parents understood why as they saw the same issues. I hope that made sense!
I haven't worked in the school but have gotten to know and observe like you. Ask to met your Principal for a cup of coffee and discuss your concerns. Keep it like meeting a friend as it should be. I love my lunch with my principal before school starts for the year.
Were the PTO and teachers fit together is (as you have seen!) different with everyone! We love our teacher reps and others that associate with the PTO. They often provide us the insite we lack as to what assembly (for ex) worked or didn't, what fundraiser was a pain...etc. We also ask that they present there needs to the group so the important questions can be asked or just talked about. The toughest part is reminding them that we are here to help and not just a slosh fund for them (really hasn't been an issue for us). Maybe a formal invitation should be given...see the reaction you get!
One afternoon a teacher said to me "UGH, PTO tonight, I have so much to do...." and went on to go on and on about feeding her cat and correcting papers! Well, I smiled and said " I'll trade you, I need to make dinner for my five children, grab the sitter, remind my husband to come home early
, throw another load in the washer, nurse the baby, change a few diapers and remeber to eat and change myself." She came to the meeting and teased me about my shirt...I forgot to change my shirt! I didn't want to make my life more crazy but show her I MAKE the time to be involved in the five most important people in my life. After all, I am my kids mom!