Care2boys I have a question, are you a 501(C)(3) corp? If so, you can get the IRS involved if they are violating the current by-laws.
I was having the same problems with the Board disregarding the by-laws such as having an Audit Committee submit a report annually, forming committees and chairpersons by the President without Board approval, bogus elections where dues paying members are not accounted for during elections which are held during an afterschool function, bogus budget approvals same as elections, the submitted budget doesn't balance, I could go on and on.
I contacted an IRS agent in regards to violating our by-laws and she stated that if the 501(C)(3) is not following its by-laws and/or Articles of Inc., it may change how it does business and may have its non-profit status stripped. This also includes poor accounting procedures, I don't even want to go there. The agent asked if I wanted to file an anomynous complaint and they would investigate it, but I told her I would try to work it out with the Board. The Board has tried to changed the way it does business due to the fact that there are more business people now involved. I also warned the Board that just because you have liability insurance, it doesn't cover everything and that they may be personally liable for their actions and/or inactions.
Oh yeah, the IRS agent also mentioned that anytime a 501(C)(3) amends its by-laws and/or Articles of Inc, a copy must be submitted to the IRS for approval to retain 501(C)(3) status.